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ImageQuestion: I am mother of a daughter who is currently going through puberty. I consider myself to be a highly sexual human being with a correct understanding of reproduction and all that comes before. I am so happy she feels comfortable with me, but sometimes I feel as if I am a bit resentful. What should I do ? Concerned, DSM

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All parents feel uncomfortable speaking with their children about sex, to different degrees, but some level of discomfort is to be expected. That she can ask you questions is great, but those questions should not be personal ones about your sex life. Just as I'm sure she expects you to respect her right to privacy, she has to respect yours. Now since you seem a bit resentful, and you did not mention the father, I'm wondering if you are single, and hence a bit sexually frustrated. If she's sexually active, that is one more reason not to tease you with this subject, as it appears she might be doing. So keep your good relationship with your daughter, and let her know that you are more than willing to answer general questions, but when it comes to your own sex life, let her know that that is a subject you are not comfortable discussing.

 
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